October has been a difficult month (I feel like I say this every month these days… maybe it’s been a difficult year ?) but it was also full of interesting things, events, and a lot of good days of reading !

Here’s a short overview of what happened :
October goals
I totally aced my October goals !
- I filled out and sent my student loans application, and sent confirmation to the student loans organization that I was, in fact, still a student, so I don’t have to start paying back my student loans right away.
- I got involved in my program’s student group, and made a few friends there – there’s a lot of really nice people and I’m super happy to have met them !
- This one is only partially done, but hey. That still counts. I found a therapist for 3 free sessions in the month – it’s only three, because it’s paid by the university and they only offer 3 sessions a year, but that’s still pretty useful !
- I cleared out my wardrobe, Marie Kondo style, and got slightly better at fashion. Great changes won’t happen overnight, but I’m happier with the way I look, and that counts as a win for me !
- The local fresh produce marked turned out to be close to my house, open every day of the week, full of amazing food and totally affordable ! Having the right ingredients motivated me to cook more and eat better.
- I finally got a library card ! Two, actually. So I promptly borrowed and downloaded as many books as I was allowed to.
- I applied to a lot of jobs, still waiting to see how that’ll turn out.
- Sports still aren’t my thing, but I’m now doing a kickboxing class once a week, and trying to exercise on two days a week total – it’s not the best thing ever, but I’m getting better at it. Slowly.
- My phone usage wasn’t lowered much this month, but I tried to use it more responsibly – most of my time spent on that screen was spent reading e-ARCs instead of playing videogames that make me lose my time, so I’m feeling good about this one.
- See point “IRL classes and finals”
Books read
I totally didn’t read my whole October TBR – but that doesn’t mean I didn’t read books at all ! In fact, I managed to fit more than 10 books in my already busy schedule :
- Out with the ex, in with the new, by Sophie Ranald
- Everything isn’t terrible, by Kathleen Smith
- Only mostly devastated, by Sophie Gonzales (I’ll review this one later this month and add the link here !)
- Eff this ! Meditation, by Lisa Kindred – see my review on Goodreads here
- Mooncakes, by Suzanne Walker – See my review here
- Digital minimalism, by Cal Newport
- Irresistible, by Adam Alter (I’m not entirely done with this one !)
- The year of less, by Cait Flanders – See my review here
- Ask a manager, by Alison Green
- The bride test, by Helen Hoang
- Spark joy, by Marie Kondo – See my review here
I’ll try to post medium length to full length reviews of the ones I haven’t reviewed yet here, but I can’t promise anything : I’m still pretty busy and writing full reviews takes so much time !

Blogtober

I planned to try and do Blogtober as much as I could, and I think it went pretty well : for a person who usually posts up to 4 blog posts a month, I published 10 of those in October ! I’m really happy about this, because setting myself this goal helped a lot in writing more regularly and getting my life a bit more in hand.
Which means : now that I know I can do it, I’m going to try to keep posting this regularly, and we’ll see how this goes !
IRL classes and finals
I studied pretty hard for all my classes – my midterms were at the end of the month and I absolutely need A+ in everything to be able to get the diploma I want to have, so I ended up super stressed out about everything and anything I could think about.
Fortunately, blogging and reading helped me relax a bit and focus more efficiently on the things I wanted to do well, and so far, I got A+ on 3 out of my 5 classes. I’m still waiting on 2 results, and I know at least one of those is going to be really bad, but I’m already working on how to fix this and how to get better in this specific class.

How did your month of October go ? Did you post your monthly wrap-up ? Feel free to link it in the comments so I can check it out !
